I went to an event recently that was rescheduled from a previous date, due to our glorious Michigan winter weather. Of all of the women who had committed to attend as guests, all of them were unable to make it on the new date due to previous commitments and conflicts. It was so hard to know that this event wasn’t going to turn out as planned, despite the heart and preparation that went into making it happen. We really wanted this to be a meaningful and beautiful event.
Managing disappointment in today’s world can be so hard! It seems like everything is centered around instant gratification and it can be easy to forget that it isn’t always to get what we want, right when we want it. I think we can all look back at some moments of our lives where we are probably glad that things didn’t work out the way that we wanted them to at that moment.
I just have to share that the rescheduled event turned out to be an AMAZING experience, despite the initial “disappointment” that came along with the lack of attendees. All of the women who had planned and prepared for this event came together and made something beautiful anyway! We were gathered, in community, and we shared more of our stories, our struggles, and we shared some laughs and snacks too. It felt so good to know that we weren’t alone in the joys and the difficulties of building businesses and dreams.
I’ve looked back on the disappointing moments of “missing out” on the job I wanted so badly, the home we thought we wanted, the vacations we couldn’t take, and the list goes on. All of that doesn’t even begin to compare to the yearning I had to become a mom. That is by far the hardest thing I’ve had to wait for over the last six and a half years. I spent so much time focusing on what I didn’t have, that I missed out on embracing the joy that comes from all of the things in life that were going really well. A couple of those things being the chance to grow within and expanding my own community of amazing women, too!
All in all, while my path hasn’t gone the way I expected, it has gone the best way. If we don’t learn to embrace the rain that we are sent, we can’t learn to appreciate the beautiful moments that bloom because of that rain, in each season of our lives.